Love is...

Love is patient, love is kind...famous words that we all know so well.

I'm pretty loved.  The love I experience is all those famous words and more.

Love is...when your mom buys you a fancy sonic toothbrush because she still cares about your oral hygiene that much.


Love is...when your dog lays at your feet, just so you can rub your feet all over her as you nap.


Love is...when you've been away from your daughter and she runs full speed into hugging your legs upon your return.


Love is...when your sister runs the bridge with you, just so you don't have to run alone.

Love is...when you know the person you've left your daughter with is more than a babysitter, when she's with family.


Love is...when your dad cheers so loudly for you during your graduation that your ears still ring all those years later.

Love is...the brother who rushes to the emergency room when you're there.


Love is...when the neighborhood cat keeps coming back, and he's no longer just the neighborhood cat.


Love is...when you still sit side-by-side in a restaurant.


Love is...when no matter how awful you feel, you know that it is all going to be okay.


Love is...when you give up your precious baby blanket to your baby, which she refers to as "Mama blankey" or "Mama" for short.


Love is...here.

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